Coming Into Bloom: Because Periods Deserve a Celebration, Not a Side-Eye

Written by: Malinda Rochelle Lewis, M.A.

Let’s be real—most of us didn’t get a beautiful welcome into womanhood. No flower petals. No warm, affirming conversations. Maybe a box of pads thrown under the bathroom door. Maybe a whispered “you’re a woman now” that left you more confused than empowered.

Imagine being 11, sitting in class, feeling something weird happening in your body. You raise your hand to go to the bathroom and—boom—there it is. Blood. On your favorite jeans. Panic. Shame. You wad up toilet paper, whisper to your friend, and pray no one notices. You don’t understand what’s going on, and no one ever explained it in a way that made sense—or felt good.

That’s the experience too many Black girls and gender-expansive youth still have. And that’s exactly why we created Coming Into Bloom.

Coming Into Bloom is a 4-hour, in-person workshop designed with love, laughter, and learning for Black youth aged 9–14 who have started or are about to start their periods. This isn’t just “the talk.” This is the gathering—a welcoming space where we honor the beauty of change, celebrate our bodies, and get real about what’s happening biologically and spiritually.

Co-led by Malinda Rochelle, PRC’s Director of Reproductive Justice and Maternal Health, and a brilliant Black woman OB-GYN (yes, the kind who can explain all the big science words and keep it cute), Dr Joy, we break down what menstruation actually is—no fear tactics, no shame. Just real talk. What’s going on in your uterus? Why do you feel moody? Why did your boobs just appear overnight? What’s the deal with discharge? How do you keep it fresh down there? All questions welcome. No embarrassment allowed.

While our young folks are learning, laughing, and sharing, their caregivers—moms, dads, aunties, uncles, grandparents, chosen fam—will be in a parallel session co-led by a licensed Black midwife, Anja, and PRC’s CEO, Kandee Lewis. They’ll learn the same information so they can support their child’s journey with confidence and care. It’s not enough to say “go talk to your mom.” This workshop builds a village. We want everyone on the same page—because period care is a team sport.

And yes, we’ll eat together. Because what’s a celebration without food? Dinner is part of the program, and so is joy.

Coming Into Bloom is a space we wish we had. It’s for the girl who Googled “am I dying?” the first time she saw blood. For the nonbinary kid wondering if periods make them less themselves. For the caregiver who wants to help but doesn’t quite know how. It’s about education, affirmation, and building confidence at a critical life stage.

Because blooming should never feel scary. It should feel like a homecoming.

So come through. Bring your questions, your awkwardness, your curiosity. We’re making space for our babies to bloom—softly, boldly, and beautifully. Period.